Managing your relationship- Third Post

情人节快乐! 

From: http://www.dajs.gov.cn/index.html

元宵(sweet dumplings)- traditional food in Lantern's Festival

元宵节快乐!

Happy Valentine’s Day, nerds!

Besides, happy Chinese Lantern Festival!

我在肯特见识过了各种各样的人才,以及各种各样的生活态度。这不是一个复杂的生活环境,却装满了各种各样复杂的人物关系。星座书说摩羯座今年会变感情咨询师,有时候和各种各样的人聊起这里的生活的时候,有时还真有这种错觉。

生活在一个全新的环境,当爱情,友情,亲情全线位移,生活的地点180度的旋转,但是生活的态度却仍要坚守在一个坐标。

I have seen a lot different kinds of people here and a lot different attitudes of living abroad. This is not a complicated environment but fulfill with complicated relationship. Horoscope book says that Capricornus this year is playing a consultant role, and I do feel that way sometimes. 

From XinhuaNET

Lantern Exhibition

Living in a total new environment, while there you have to replace your whole relationships including love, friendship and kinship, but the only thing you do not want to replace is your attitude towards them.

爱情 Love

很多人在坚持一场异地恋,很多人被异地恋打败,生活是一场演出,却演不出人心的苦辣酸甜。我是异地恋的失败者,但是我由衷地佩服那些能坚持到底,至少是坚持到现在的人。

时间是谋杀一段感情的凶手,距离也是.当你们之间的共同话题越来越少,当你们看到的未来越来越模糊,你怎么维护这段爱情?有时候正是因为把感情看得太过认真,所以犹豫太多,迟疑太久,然后不知该如面对支离破碎的感情。

朋友说了一句话给我听,有时候,我们总在想前面有多少困难,多少辛苦,于是在这些困难还没到来的时候就把自己吓退,可是如果我们真心想要在一起,就会去想想怎么样克服这些困难,怎么样在一起。另一对坚持了很久的异地恋情,也常常吵架缠身,但是她说,不管怎样生气,在道别的时候都要对对方说“我爱你”。

我们的爱情,就是要被这些小小的真心连在一起,然后才能看到一个闪亮的未来。所以,请不要吝惜你对爱的表达。

Long distance relationship, I never see so much long distance relationship in my life. Sometimes you win, but most time you lose. Life is a show, but cannot perform your heart. I am a loser of long distance, but I do admire those ones who still hanging there, at least hanging for now.

Time is a murder for killing a relationship, so is distance. While the topics for sharing are getting less and less, while future is getting blurrier and blurrier, how can you find a way to maintain your feeling for each other? Most time, we just treat it too serious, so we hesitate too much and too long, and convince ourselves to give up this hopeless feeling.

I question myself, and maybe get an answer by chatting with a friend. He is saying based on his own experience, “We are always thinking about how many difficulties we are going to encounter, how long we have to hanging there, and scare ourselves away even before we actually face them. But if I want to be with this person, I would like to think about how to conquer tribulation and be together.” Another girl who lasting for a long time LDR said that, the quarrel is unavoidable, but no matter how mad they were during the quarrel, they made a rule to tell each other “I love you” before farewell.

Our love, it connected by these tiny heartfelt expressions and indicates a shinning future. So, do not hesitate for your expression of love to those person you truly love.

Facebook Self-expression ad campaign, tell them how you feel, and you won’t regret it.

友情 Friendship

爱情如水,友情如山。在异地的生活里,总是这群人一直在给你打气,他们可能在你身边,也可能远在重洋之外,但是却永远都是你的后援和支撑,陪着你走过艰难的时光。你们在彼此的身上折射出了梦想的形状,分享了快乐的时光。不要一味的呆在家里,多交朋友吧,只有打开你的门,才能让别人走进你的世界。

Love is to water as friendship is to mountain. While living abroad, they are the bunch of people always be there for you whether they are in Kent or far away from ocean. No matter what, they are support and back you up for your every difficult time. You are reflecting the shape of dream from each other, and cherishing the happy moment with each other. Do not stay at your room like forever. Leaving your dorm and making friends. Opening your door is the only way to let others enter your world.

Sheldon, the friendship algorithm. Big Bang Theory

亲情 Family

他们是最牵挂你的人,千山万水走遍,只有你的家人永远守着一方水土,等着你归来的佳期。这是一个touching topic,是心底最柔软的地方,更是所有海外学子躲不开的硬伤。

第一个不在他们身边的春节,中秋节,元宵节,第一个没有他们陪着你的生日,第一次背井离乡的流浪感,第一个在深夜里惊醒时恍若一梦的慌乱。感谢生活给我们的坚强,让我们成为他们的自豪。

每逢佳节倍思亲,有空打电话回去,聊聊彼此生活,向父母报个平安。有时候,距离让我们更亲近。

They are ones who care you most. No matter how far you go, parents are the only person who will stay in that forever point and waiting for you. This is the softest place in your heart and a wound you can never get rid of.

Since being here, you have the first Mid-autumn Festival without them, and the coming Spring Festival and Lantern’s Festival. You also have the first birthday without them, and firstly experience the loneliness while you suddenly awake in the midnight. All we can do is thanking for the courage bestowed by life that making us the pride of families.

Thanks for the technology, we can talk and look them without being there. Talk to them, because they are experiencing the same miss just like you. Sometimes, distance can close our relationship.

腾讯春晚广告,我不知道腾讯砸了多少人民币在这短短的两分钟,但是这是一个十分成功的广告营销。

“This advertisement by Tencent was broadcasted during the  Spring Festival Gala, which is one of the most expensive air times on Chinese television. The familiar story is something a lot of Chinese families go through and has moved thousands of overseas Chinese students to tears.” — TNW Asia

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